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Take The Fetish Survey New!! June 1st, Hal's Sex Survey Blog and Discussion Forum - I'll be posting and commenting on a daily basis on the surveys and discussion ideas I get from them as I work on compiling everything together for the book. please bookmark and return daily for thought provoking and horny sex talk and links. Bondage Is For Lovers One of the reasons why bondage and kink can be a marriage's best friend is that the key element in a safe s&m experience is trust. Fetish and roleplay scenes can lift a tedious marriage out of the doldrums and inject a little excitement onto the drudgery of day to day life. My wife and I estimate that we've had sex over 1000 times in our 10 years together. Imagine how boring it would be if it was all missionary. So we've tried many different variations to keep our sex life exciting and so far so good. We've tried just about everything on this list and some things that aren't, some of them we had never tried before, not even realizing we were into them at all, fetishes and fantasies tend to change and grow. Not that bdsm for strangers is a bad thing, I knew a guy who ended up bound and blindfolded on a woman's bed on their first date and many lifestylers get wild with strangers all the time. But for long term couples it can really improve the quality of the relationship. Communicating your desires without fear of ridicule is a start, respecting boundaries and a commitment to wanting to please your partner, that's the key to a great sex life and married life. Get wild, get kinky, get happy with your partner. Here's a link to a sex-toy store. Today's survey comes from Don R., a 40-55 year old straight guy into natural tits and facesitting. He suggests as a fetish 'My tongue halfway in my wife's anal' He jerks off once a month and has a steady who satisfies him. One thing he wishes is that she'd swallow his cum more often. He's never paid for sex, doesn't think he's kinky and spends 0 dollars on porn and sex toys. Here's his comment, "When I put our 6 inch dildo up my wife's pussy as she puts my 6 inch cock in her mouth. We also love doing the 69 position. I love licking her anal alot!!! I get her to cum on my fingers before I put them in her wet pussy. She loves sucking my cock before I put it in her nice pussy. I do fantisize about screwing other woman but after 20 years of marriage I don't plan on it. ' What's With The Strap-Ons June 5, Why is it that so many men, at least 2 out of 3 from our survey, are so hungry for strap-on sex? Again and again I read fantasies from men who want to be suck one or mor strap-on dildo and then be fucked in the ass, either feminized, forced, gangbanged or lovingly screwed. One simple answer is a man's prostate gland located just inside the anus. This is the gland that controls a man's ejaculate so for it to be stimulated feels great and often results in a more powerful orgasm. I know when I was just discovering masturbation that I quickly discovered my prostate as well. Add to that the 'turning the tables' element, the idea of a woman in a man's role with a big dick controlling the scenario makes for a powerful fantasy. Craving Cock and Pussy June 4, This has got to be one of the most common fantasies I see besides strap-on penetration, a previously 'straight' male is forced by his mistress to suck another man's penis and swallow his cum. I think part of it is that most men love getting their dicks sucked so much, they imagine they can do it better than anyone. I wonder how many guys go through life imagining this scene and never coming clean to their partners about it and therefore never enjoying the fantasy. I say go for it, your woman will probably enjoy it as much to watch you and enjoy the double action for herself. Here's a great bi-sex movie (free) and here's a link to the best dedicated bi-sex threesome site online. Today's survey comes from Scott M. a male 18-25 into naturaltits, facesitting spankings, fem-dom, meninpanties, bondage, strap-ons, leather, X-Dressing, Butt-Play, Cum, Cock&Ball Torture. He suggests strap on dildo and forced bi sex again, jerks off daily and isn't sure if he has a steady. Has never paid for sex. His letter reads (and keep in mind he describes himself as straight, being tied up forced to lick my mistress' pussy for however long she desires. then having a male come in and watching her suck his cock lick she is in heaven. and she keeps making eye contact with me like she is trying to make me jealous like i am missing out on the pleasure of sucking cock. then she motions for me to come closer and she inserts it in my lips,still wet with her saliva. then slowly she makes me suck it. finaly she makes me lay down on the bed and lays on top of me in a 69 position. then the male comes over and she commands me to get his cock wet for her pussy. finally he begins to fuck her and whenever his dick falls out i have to clean it off. then after she has had the number of desired orgasms she ties me down and sits on my face with her facing my feet. then she lifts my legs up and she commands the male to fuck my worthless ass. finally when he is ready to cum she tells him to pull out and she takes his cum in her mouth. then without swallowing it she begins to kiss me forcing his cum in my mouth telling me to swallow it because i am the one who caused it. then she pulls my legs over my head and jacks my off till i cum in my own mouth., A Dominant Wife Speaks June 3, today's comment comes from a 40-55 year old straight female, she likes natural tits, spankings, men in panties, femdom, bondage, strap-ons, leather, exhibitionism, voyeurism, butt play, cbt and masturbates more than daily. She has a steady who satisfies her. Here's her fantasy. he is arriving after being gone several months. As he enters, kneels as I open my robe & pleases me. I order him to run a warm bath for me as he is going to shave me & then dress me as we are going on a shopping trip to buy a new strapon, vibrating anal probe & more depending on how he responds to my commands. He baths me & then dresses me and we leave for the store. He is instructed to pick out a new vibrating strapon and then ask where he might find stockings to fit him, as well as, the vibrating anal probes, which lube & cleaner would be best for his Mistress to use. As we are checking out, he kneels and thanks me for the new toys and stockings. We leave with the clerk smiling. He is then ordered to re-enter the store alone and purchase a video that has a male being taken by his Mistress with her strapon. We leave and return home. He is instructed to remove his clothes. There is a knock on the door & he is instructed to answer it. It is a very good male friend that has come to enjoy! He is instructed to kneel and please him. He is then instructed to kneel at the end of the bed & ankle & wrist cuffs are placed on him & he will watch as the male friend and I have sex & will not make a sound. He is then released from the ankle cuffs and instructed to please me before I use my strapon. If he does not make me cum, he will have to please my friend and then try again. The evening progresses as he pleases both of us and is taken by both of us in any way that we choose; thanking us each time. Now that's a lady that knows what she likes. Snowballing and a Shemale Threesome June 1 2005 - Here's today's pick from a straight male age 26-29 into natural tits, femdom, strap-ons, butt-play, and cum, who jerks off daily, has a steady but isn't sure if he's satisfied and wishes she'd take charge more often. A fetish he suggests is Snowballing. Snowballing, for those of you who don't know is the practice of passing cum from one mouth to another, whether from a blowjob or a creampie. Some women find it sexy (or vengeful) to pass a man's cum back to him to swallow after a blowjob. It certainly extends a kinky session past the cumshot where sex usually ends. I give it a thumbs up. Here's a link to a good cumshot and snowball site And here's his comment, " My girlfriend and I are getting hot and heavy, she says she wants to fuck me with a strapon. She puts on the strapon and tells me to suck it, after a while she starts fucking my mouth. She is panting and groaning, then says get on all fours, I feel the cold lube being applied to my arse, I look at her, she has changed the strapon to a 10 incher. My GF said I am going to fuck you with this and you are going to take it all. She pushes it in I gasp, and cry out, it hurts but feels sooo good, my GF rams the rest in. She starts to hammer my arse for about 15 minutes going faster and faster. She pulls the strapon out & yells out a name Sofie.In walks this tall woman with huge tits, my GF undresses her, Sofie has a semi erect cock........god she is a shemale. My GF orders me to suck Sofies cock, Sofie's cock is getting harder and bigger. I get back on all fours, Sofie drives her 7" inch cock in me, at the same time my GF pushes the strapon that was up my arse in my mouth. Sofies withdraws her cock and my GF smiles as she lies flat on the bed. My GF tells me to mount her, I do, I start to ride her........she says not yet. I feel more lube on my arsehole.........OH GOD SOFIE IS TRYING TO PUSH HER SHEMALE COCK IN MY ARSE while I have the 10 incher in me. My GF is saying take it, take it........I start to grunt and shake involuntarily, then Sofie yells out OH YEAH. They both start fucking me harder and harder, the suddenly Sofie pulls out, rips off her condom and pulls my head back, she yells at me to open my mouth........I do and start sucking her cock, I look at her face as it is flushed and dripping sweat, I can taste the precum, my GF is ramming my arsehole. Sofie cries out I'm cumming, my mouth is filled with her cum, its dripping out, I swallow, but she is still cumming I swallow another load. I feel my GF's lips on my tasting Sofies cum. I grab my hard cock, I need to cum. My GF said not yet. I lie on my back, my GF said throw your legs over your head......she drives the strapon into my arse again, and fucks me........Sofie grabs my cock, my face is now covered with my precum, then I start spurting load after load of my cum onto my face and into my mouth. Suddenly Sofie and my GF are licking my cum off my face. Sofie says I want more.......she grabs my semi erect cock and jacks me off, she doesn't stop until I cum again.......she sucks all the cum into her mouth, and then spits it into my still gaping arsehole. My GF lies on her back, I lower my arse to her mouth and she starts sucking the cum out of my arsehole as she masturbates herself to another orgasm, whilst I suck Sofies now flaccid dripping cock." Here's a good tranny/shemale site We've read over 5000 completed surveys. as of 06/01/05 Here are the numbers based on the first 1200 surveys compiled. There were 86% of respondents were male with 7% transgendered and 7% women respondents, so please get your wives and girlfriends to take the survey too. 73% of male respondents were straight while 26% were bisexual and just two males were gay.. There were 9 straight, 6 bi and 2 gay women. Strap-On fetish is still the overwhelming winner in the 'wish I got more of' category. In fact, 72% of the total are into femdom with 62% into strap-ons. Some other numbers for you to consider - All numbers reflect the overall total unless otherwise stated 57% are into bondage (77% of the women), 41% into spankings, 47% butt-play and 40% panties, 39% into crossdressing and 23% enjoy pee. Only 16% are into voyeurism and 10% into gay sex, which seems odd since almost 30% of respondents declared themselves gay or bi. 36% of men are into cum (6% of women), with quite a few commenting that they enjoy being forced to eat their own after sex. 23% orgies, 28% into latex, 31% leather. 24% feet, 23% uniforms, 40% cock&ball torture. And a special kudus to Marcello who suggests 'love' as one of his fetishes. Isn't that sweet. 42% said they've paid a woman for sex, while 4 have paid a man. 3 women have paid women for sex. 55% feel unsatisfied while 37% say their lover does satisfy their desires. Only 15% of you DO NOT think of yourselves as kinky. Many of the comments and fantasies have been very interesting. Here are some of our favorites.. being duped by two women into x-dressing and then being tied up, photographed and sexually humiliated. Then my girlfriend (who, unknown to me has arranged it) enters the room after having sex with three studs and squats over my face. She then grabs my balls and makes me drink the cum from her sex." Joe G "I'm dressed in pretty underpanties and a baby-doll nightgown. My wife's lover comes over and starts to take her clothes off. As he removes her panties, she "forces" me to suck his pretty cock to get it hard before he fucks her. After he cums inside her, I have to lick his cum out of her pussy . While I am doing this, he slides his pretty pink dick in my bottom and fucks me as though I were a girl!" "being kidnaped by a bucnh of girls held down and dressed against my will, john "i walk into the room and my mistress is standinhg there with her thigh high leather boots on and her strap on and she commands me to my knees and then orders me to suck her cock to get it nice and wet for my fucking" Michael "just to have a man last more than 2min. and have a dick bigger than 4 inches. i need a well hung man" s. fay "...to be dressed like a bitch, bound to a cross and fucked in the ass with a dildo while I suck someone's dick," Eduard "Watch my wife suck another mans cock while I'm secrectly watching and jerking off into a pair of panties. Seeing him cum all over her as I cum" Chet "Be taken to Hooters by my Mistress but not allowed to look at the waitresses. If i do, recieve shock from tens cockring," Rick "Have my wife dress me up as a girl and treat me like a slut and then fucking me with a strapon dildo." Kevin To walk into our bedroom and be greeted by my wife in her beautiful black shiney outfit with her breast exposed. She orders me to strip and then proceed to bind me to the bed and pegs my nipples and then my balls and cock. Using the crop she then knocks each peg off and laughs with each one. Then she reties me with my ass in the air and proceeds to play with my ass. She then ties my cock with a small rope and pulls it through my legs backwards until it feels like it is coming off and secures it there. Then puts on a strap-on and rams it inside of my tight bung hole. While she is pulling roughly on my cock rope to create pain there as well. Then she turns me over and ties me spreadeagle and works my cock hard and enjoys it for herself. I cum and she get upset and makes me clean her soiled womanhood of all of my nasty juices. She sits on my face until she is completely satisfied that I have done her well and not left a drop of cum inside her and she too has come., I have never paid for intercourse although I once paid to be whipped and huniliated by a young lady. She forced me to masturbate in front of her until I came. Another fantasy of mine is to go to a BD club and be tied and humilated in front of people I do not know and then forced to masturbate in front of the crowd. I also want to be submissive to my wife with another man in the room and forced to play with him. If he is clean and verifiable, maybe even to satisfy him for her. "I am alone at home and the door bell rings. I answer it and there is a beautiful redhaired woman whom I have never met. She asks if she can come in and I oblige. Once inside she demands that I submit to her and follow each of her commands to the letter. First she demands that I bathe and remove all this disgusting body hair from my imperfect body. Then she pulls out a sexy black corset, fishnet stockings and 5" black heels and states I am to wear them. I dress quickly. I am so excited my stiff cock is huge and purple. The lingerie feels so nice against my shaven body. I am still in awe of the exquisite creature before me. she continuously calls me a sissy and I am trembling with desire. She slowly disrobes as she tells me that I must be punished for my failures as a man. She reveals an enormous cock between her shapely, silky thighs. She takes my head and forces my mouth down onto the thick shaft. I am in heaven as I see a tiny drop of her semen glisten on the tip Tentatively i lick the head and then hungryly begin sucking. i know how to suck this cock. i love sucking this cock. i am hers. She abruptly pulls her monster shaft out of my mouth and then bends me over a chair. I know what is coming. My asshole is sooo wet with my own juices that the head of her cock easily slides in. My breath catches as my sphincter is stretched wildly. Slowly she fucks me. I beg for it, I yearn for it. She fucks me harder and harder. i love the feel. Just as she cums she withdraws and thrusts her spitting shaft into my face. cum spurts over my mouth as i try and swallow it all. ah, so tasty, so delicious. i am hers forever. i believe i have said enough........." Mike "I've always wanted to be a slut for a mistress. I want her to dress me up and make me fuck and suck men in front of her until she is satisfied," Matt "To be brutally raped with a strapon by a gorgeous big titted sadistic lady," Jimmy "Being kidnapped and made to serve as a maid and to clean up everything and everybody in the place. To be made to be nude all the time and to challenge me to learn more fun and exciting ways to make everyone I am around more happy that I am able to serve them." Randy "To be dressed as a maid and doing chores for my mistress. Then she finds something wrong with my work and ties me so I can't move, puts on a strap on and fucks me for an hour" Mike "Being handcuffed at the feet of a beautiful lady, gently kissing her nylon or silk hose encased feet. Later, chained in her closet, forced to shine her shoes and boots " Edmund "to be fucked up the ass by my spouse while I am in a 69 position with another man or woman. or Total sexual domination by my spouse on me. Including CBT and lots of it," Gary "To fall asleep, be bound up and woken by a slap to the face or a jerk of the genitals, wake up and see a woman in a nurse outfit and stockings and high heels, have her trample, smother, CB/N torture me for hours, and make me feel afraid. Orgasm if she lets me." Michael "Being caught in underwear by two bisexaul chicks who would then fuck me with dildos," Tom "wearing my corset and TIGHT leather jeans, a strap on, tieing a man up, putting a c&B harness on him, clothes pins, and fucking his ass," stephi "Being "forced" to dress as a Maid / "Young Girl" by a dominant lady ( inc full makeup, corsets, wig, etc. ). Then serving her around the house before giving her sexual releaf ( I'm not allowed to cum ). She then takes me to a dominant man who first spanks me before I'm forced to "suck him off" as she "weighs down" by balls before using a double ended strap-on on me ( this time I'm allowed to cum - if I can ).My above fantasy has not yet come true. However, I have been "spanked" by an "Aunt" ( no sex ) and "Tied, Teased & Punished" by a younger Lady ( again no sex ). "David "To share my wife with a bi-man or couple in an evening of B&D games," Andreas "To be given an over the knee bare bottom spanking by an older woman, before being fucked with a strap-on cock by the same woman, having the palms of my hands belted with a ruler and forced to masturbate in front of the older woman," Malcolm "To be tied up, stretched, erotically teased and tortured by a beautiful long dark haired green eyed Amazon woman with large breasts dressed in wild black leather and making me submit to licking her sex smelling armpits" - David